Our family loves to pull out our cowboy boots and hats and go horseback riding. Since we don’t own horses, we occasionally go to riding stables to get our horse fix. When the girls were seven and ten, we decided to go for a morning ride at a stable near our lake cabin. The girls were super excited, but their excitement gave way to frustration as their focus turned to who was wearing which cowboy hat. The prior year, they had each gotten a new cowboy hat – one was pink and one was orange. Yes, pink and orange cowboy hats. I certainly don’t recall whose was whose, and apparently there was a trade that occurred at some point over the winter. Well, there we were, trying to get on the road on time and the girls are arguing about who gets the pink cowboy hat.